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Today's rare event is called the lunar occultation of Mars—a rare and mesmerizing event where the Moon passes in front of Mars, temporarily covering most or all of it from view. This particular event occurred today, July 28, 2025, making it a striking celestial moment for many observers. YouTube+10Facebook+10Daily Galaxy+10. Here's what my AI search says of this event.
On July 28, a waxing crescent Moon (about 19% illuminated) rose in the west not long after sunset and drifted very close to Mars—within approximately 1°, or the width of your little finger at arm’s length. EarthSky+3Live Science+3When the Curves Line Up+3
In some places around the globe (particularly parts of the Americas, and certain regions in Africa and Antarctica), the Moon passed directly in front of Mars, causing a brief occultation where Mars disappeared behind the lunar limb and later re-emerged. Orbital Today
Occultation Visibility: Only visible from a narrow strip of locations, including western South America, western Africa, and southern polar regions. In-The-Sky.orgLinkedIn
Conjunction (Close Pass): From most places worldwide, including North America and Europe, the Moon and Mars appeared to pass in very close proximity—no covering, but a stunning near‑contact. When the Curves Line Up+14Live Science+14Orbital Today+14
From your perspective (Calif. / Walnut Creek), this event would have appeared as a striking conjunction—Mars close to the Moon, but not fully covered. EarthSkySpace
Timing: About 45 minutes after sunset, both Mars and the crescent Moon rose high enough over the western horizon to be easily seen together. Orbital Today+13Live Science+13Facebook+13
What to Look For:
Mars as a bright reddish “star”—easy to spot even without magnification.
Earthshine on the Moon—a faint, ghostly glow on the dark side lit by sunlight reflecting off Earth. Orbital Today+6EarthSky+6RASC Hamilton+6
Best Tools: Lightweight gear like 10×50 binoculars or a small telescope can capture the subtle lunar features and Mars’s disappearance/reappearance if in the right location. SpaceIn-The-Sky.org
Lunar occultations of bright planets like Mars are relatively rare—they depend on precise orbital alignments and visibility from specific regions on Earth. In-The-Sky.org+8In-The-Sky.org+8RASC Hamilton+8
Occurring near Mars opposition (when Mars is closest to Earth), the planet is exceptionally bright, making the visual impact greater. Live ScienceHigh Point Scientific
For those in the occultation path, it’s a true slow‑motion eclipse—a planet vanishing behind the Moon and reappearing minutes later.
Feature | Details |
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Event | Lunar occultation (Moon covering Mars) or very close conjunction |
Date | July 28, 2025 |
Moon phase | ~19% waxing crescent |
Visibility | Conjunction visible widely; occultation only from certain regions |
View from Walnut Creek | Close conjunction; likely no full occultation |
Equipment | Naked eye, binoculars or small telescope for best detail |
Notable effect | Earthshine visible on Moon’s dark si |
Monday | 5 - 9PM 12 - 2:30PM |
Tuesday | 12 - 2:30PM 5 - 9PM |
Wednesday | 12 - 2:30PM 5 - 9PM |
Thursday | 5 - 9PM 12 - 2:30PM |
Friday | 12 - 2:30PM 5 - 9PM |
Saturday | 12 - 2:30PM 5 - 9PM |
Sunday | Closed |
Living Alone, Not Lonely: Finding Peace and Connection in Solitude
Living alone can be a peaceful, liberating experience—but for many, it also comes with bouts of loneliness that creep in during quiet evenings or long weekends. Loneliness is a deeply human emotion, one that doesn’t discriminate by age or background. It’s not about being alone, but about feeling alone.
As someone who lives solo, I’ve felt this, too. While chatting with an AI like ChatGPT offers momentary comfort, here are meaningful, real-world ways I—and many others—cope with loneliness while living alone.
When living alone, time can feel shapeless. Creating a daily routine—morning coffee rituals, mid-day walks, reading before bed—gives life rhythm and purpose. This helps reduce idle moments where loneliness tends to sneak in.
Call or video chat with friends and family. A genuine 10-minute conversation can do wonders. I e-mail friends and relatives when I feel lonely.
Join interest-based groups (book clubs, hiking clubs, art classes). In-person or virtual, these provide community and shared experiences. Play Bridge or Mahjong.
Volunteer—even once a month. Helping others is a powerful way to feel connected and valued.
Pursue solo hobbies: painting, photography, journaling, gardening.
Explore new music, films, or cuisine—make Friday nights your personal cultural festival.
Take yourself out: Try dining solo at cafés or exploring museums or parks—alone doesn’t mean lonely.
A pet offers companionship, warmth, and routine. If that’s not feasible, caring for houseplants can also offer a sense of responsibility and life around you. I have my 2 cats, Batman and Robin to kept me company. I have numerous houseplants to take care of.
Meditation and deep breathing help anchor you in the moment.
Journaling your thoughts, especially feelings of loneliness, can help you better understand them and reduce their power. I write a daily blog, sometimes two.
Seeing others’ curated lives can intensify loneliness. Take breaks, or follow uplifting pages that promote positivity and mental wellness.
It’s okay to need help. Therapists, counselors, and support groups—whether in-person or online—offer tools and emotional safety nets for those struggling deeply with isolation.
Loneliness doesn’t mean something is wrong with you. It’s a signal—a whisper from the soul that craves connection, meaning, and presence. Living alone can actually become a beautiful journey of self-rediscovery, where you learn to enjoy your own company and build a life that nourishes you from within.
So if you’re feeling lonely, know this: you're not alone in that feeling. And there are always steps—small, kind, steady steps—you can take toward a more connected, fulfilling life.
Here are a few things I’ve discovered that truly help me when loneliness creeps in:
Writing: Putting thoughts on paper—especially personal reflections like this—helps me process and release them.
Staying curious: Whether it’s trying new recipes, learning AI tech, or exploring Filipino cuisine in the East Bay, curiosity keeps the mind alive.
Mindfulness: Deep breaths, gratitude journaling, and simply being present. These practices center me.
While the Census itself doesn’t directly measure “emotional loneliness,” several high-quality surveys offer insights:
A May 2024 Harvard survey of U.S. adults found that 21% of all U.S. adults report feeling lonely — haunted by a sense of disconnection from friends, family, or the world The Washington Post+7TIME+7CT Insider+7The Washington Post+2Pew Research Center+2Axios+2Making Caring Common.
Additionally, a October 2024 U.S. Census Household Pulse survey reported that:
13% of adults experience frequent loneliness (“always” or “usually” feeling lonely),
While 60% report they rarely or never feel lonely The Washington Post.
However, loneliness correlates strongly with living alone: Harvard notes that people living alone are among the groups with the highest odds of feeling lonely cdc.gov+15scienceofpeople.com+15Making Caring Common+15.
Let's apply some approximate but reasonable calculations:
35 million adults live alone (27.6% of ~128 million households).
If we assume a higher-than-average loneliness rate among them—let’s say around 30% are "frequently lonely"—that would be about 10.5 million people.
For a more conservative estimate using Harvard’s overall rate (21%):
21% of 35 million = 7.35 million adults living alone who feel lonely at least some of the time.
Approx. 35 million Americans live alone.
Among them, between 7–11 million likely experience significant emotional loneliness, based on available surveys.
These are estimates based on survey data; neither the Census nor these surveys directly align. The variance (7 vs. 10 million) depends on whether you use overall loneliness rates (21%) or "frequent loneliness" rates among those living alone (~30%).
U‑shaped pattern: Loneliness peaks in young adulthood (18–34) and again in older age (65+), dipping in midlife rootsofloneliness.com+15Vox+15Science of People+15.
A Census Household Pulse survey (2024) reported:
28% of adults aged 18–24 experience frequent loneliness,
Compared to just 7% of retirees Greater Good+3The Washington Post+3Census.gov+3.
The 2022 BRFSS (CDC) found:
43.3% of 18–34‑year‑olds felt lonely,
Compared to 29.6% of non‑Hispanic White adults overall Wikipedia+6CDC+6Census.gov+6CDC.
Key takeaway: Young adults living alone are at particularly high risk.
Overall, women report loneliness more often:
33.5% versus 30.7% for men The Washington Post+5CDC+5Science of People+5.
However, men living alone are more likely to lack emotional support (22.3% men vs 26.1% women reporting support lacking) .
Cultural norms may cause men to express loneliness indirectly (e.g., fewer close friends) .
BRFSS 2022 highlights:
Highest loneliness among bisexual (56.7%) and transgender adults (56–64%)Census.gov+15CDC+15SocialSelf+15.
Cigna (2020–21) found:
68% of Black adults, 75% of Hispanic adults feel lonely—higher than the 58% national averageScienceDirect+15SocialSelf+15CT Insider+15.
KFF 2023 survey shows:
About 31% of 18–29-year-olds felt often lonely KFF+1Vox+1.
Vox/WaPo summary notes:
Racial minorities and LGBTQ+ groups are disproportionately affected .
Demographic | Living Alone Loneliness Risk |
---|---|
Young adults (18–34) | Very high — ~40–45% |
Retirees (65+) | Lower — ~7% report frequent loneliness |
Women | Slightly higher self-reported loneliness |
Men | Higher risk of lacking emotional support |
Black & Hispanic | Elevated—68–75% report loneliness |
Bisexual & Transgender | Highest—~57–64% report loneliness |
Young adults and LGBTQ+ individuals living alone are especially vulnerable.
Women may express loneliness more directly; men may experience emotional isolation.
Minority racial/ethnic groups face systemic and social barriers that exacerbate loneliness.
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